It may seem ironic that you would "nurture" a divorce, but mediation works best when both parties take the time to communicate with each other.
People turn to divorce attorneys for guidance on reaching a divorce settlement. The advice I offer often deals with what NOT to do.
Many of our clients find themselves needing to obtain a mortgage either to refinance their existing home or to purchase a new home. Hopefully this is something you have considered in the division of your assets and already planned for.